I had just sat down alone with my lunch plate. It was the last day before we broke for vacations and this was the last meal, and yet there was no one to hang out with. Obviously, everyone had things to wind up and so I was surprised to see him walk into the hall. Now that I think of it I cannot remember if I saw him walk into the hall, or did he just appear, or did I mistake the sequence of events. It’s been 24 years, how does one remember?
When he saw me sitting alone, he came to give me company. We chatted easily, playful banter, he was leaving the next day for a cross-nation bike trip with friends. I was travelling to my hometown. I knew he would be crossing my place, and that, I knew, and the whole world knew, was almost the only reason why he had signed up for the trip. A chance to visit me at home.
It had been 8 years since we broke up. A non-starter of a childhood crush which had become a lifelong truth for him, and had turned into a forgotten moment for me. By now we were adults (20!) and had worked our way to the starting line of a tremendous friendship. We chatted of this and that, and our plans for the next year – our last year together in college. While the studies and professional expectations were manageable, the question that loomed in all of our beings was – would we be able to make it in the outside world? And I knew that it would not be very difficult if he would continue to be this friend (and not the mopey rejected lover that he had been for the past few years!).
The bell rang, signalling the end of lunch. He jumped and said, Now I must go. I was surprised, I had just assumed that he had finished eating, and was just whiling away some time with me. But he had stayed with me as long as he could – until the bell rang. I have to go, haven’t had lunch yet, with a sheepish grin. Write to me! was the last thing I said.
22 days later he died in a road accident. He didn’t write to me.
24 years later I still miss the friend I could have had.